I’d recommend the books you can heal your life Louise Hay or Stop giving it away by cherylynn veiland. $10 a pop!
These books give advice on self care in that have something for yourself, a gift put yourself first for once. Many of can’t justify or motivate if it’s not for someone else or a cause outside of ourselves. Giving up smoking can be just that your own private space even nirvana these two books will help establish that and engage the none smoking you. Best of luck!