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Mike O
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Manage your expectations

Posted in Hints and tips 11 Jun 2022
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U.K. Health care professionals although well meaning often extol the benefits of quitting whilst trivialising the withdrawal symptoms.

I understand they do this to encourage quit attempts.

I also understand many are reading from a script and have never smoked themselves.

I don’t think you can equate smoking to any other type of addiction however I notice they don’t really do this with other forms of addiction.

The picture is often painted after 2-3 weeks of quitting - you will be richer, have more energy, over cravings over eating weight we lm normalise- your vitals will be Back to normal and life will be tickerty boo! Life a dream and a fresh start.

This is not the case giving up is fundamental to do but please don’t think it will be all sunshine and roses after 2-3 weeks.

Every quit attempt is individual and worthwhile please manage your expectations to avoid disappointment and failure.

I advise expect nothing expect to be patient for results- years and not months- certainly not weeks or days and also prepare that results might never happen. Then if things happen sooner rather than later enjoy the bonus but be prepared- you are giving up decades long engrained habits.

Similar to drug withdrawal you can feel off key for a very ling time.

Only you will know when this eventually passes- it’s all individual please don’t believe the hype of a 2-3 week kick out hen that’s that

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  • Mike O November 03, 2022 | 4:52
    Well, 6 months in and haven’t returned to smoking cigarettes. I have had occasions where I have smoked cigars but those dalliances have now passed also. I stand by my initial post about managing expectations. I am glad I have quit and do feel magainally better for it, but not better to the extent you see on the quit adverts that people are scaling mountains after 2 weeks. I would say I am a bit better for it. Like not drinking and not having a hangover the next day. I probably have felt the need to rest more and sleep more. I haven’t felt any more energetic or inspired to take up new hobbies. My additional stone in weight has stayed with me. Don’t see that changing quickly. The takeaway for me is well, it’s life minus cigarettes. Like life minus a chocolate bar. You will have more money and won’t gain weight or rot your teeth but other than that you are the same old you.Although you won’t really notice!

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